Memorial Day Weekend



It’s a Merry Christmas at Marissa’s
This may be a rather long post, as I haven’t posted all month and A LOT happened this month.
A few days after we returned from LA from Thanksgiving, Todd’s parents arrived from New York to celebrate a very Matthews Christmas. We’ve been holly jolly all month at our house, kicking it off the first weekend in December. It was wonderful to have Mimi and Papa J visit. We went and got our tree as a big family and all decorated it together, then we were able to celebrate Christmas with gifts from under our fresh beautiful tree. Maisy was particularly fond of the tree. Every morning when we came down stairs, she’d ask to make the tree “Magical”. Then we’d let her turn on the lights.

Maisy placing the angel on our tree. The angel was used by my family since I could remember and is the same one my sister and I would trade years putting it on.
The Matthews had Christmas that Sunday. It gets more and more fun each year as Maisy gets older.

Maisy and Papa J entertaining us with a Christmas song

Merry Christmas, Mimi, Papa J and Steven!
We were lucky enough to get to celebrate Papa J’s birthday with him while he was out too!
Good news soon followed. Todd’s company, Heroku, announced that they had just been purchased by another company, Salesforce.com. Congratulations, Todd and Heroku!! Great work and wonderful news.

The girls in their Heroku shirts with Daddy
We did lots of fun things in December. We took Maisy to see Tangled which she, Todd and I really loved. It’s one of the best Disney films ever made. We went to Zoo Lights at the Oakland Zoo which seems to have become a tradition. It was a nice family event. We made it to the Zoo Lights after visiting Santa in the San Francisco mall. Santa was less than super jolly, was drinking Mountain Dew and charged us $20 for a photo, but it’s all worth it!
Maisy refused to sit on Santa’s lap, but said it was fine for Maren to. We asked that she stand there and hold Maren’s hand to help Maren be brave, well, and we bribed her with a candy cane.
The day before I asked Maisy what she wanted from Santa. This is what she wanted.
Real wings so she can fly, the ones she has don’t really work- she’ll take me with her when she goes flying (so sweet).
Her Tinker Bell doll to talk to her because she doesn’t talk very well.
Her baby doll’s hands to open because they are always closed.
The baby to close her eyes because they are always open
and a baby who talks
a bib for her baby
a placemat for her baby
and sunglasses for her baby
and drum roll please….. An iPad for herself.
Since we had a long weekend together Todd and Maisy got to spend some quality time together. One morning while I was napping and they were drawing, I awoke to this beautiful drawing Todd had made of Maisy as a Christmas Elf.

Maisy the Sweetest Elf I’ve EVER seen
Todd and Maisy also got to work making a few new mustaches.

Todd and Maisy work on the ’staches
Maisy has gotten very articulate in her language and is also excelling at drawing. Here is a drawing of the Mean Queen and Maisy using red crayon on her new easel.

Maisy and the Mean Queen in red
Maren is growing growing growing! Her cries are not newborn sounds any longer. Her cry has a babbling sound to it. Some times in the morning I have to really listed to tell if it’s Maisy or Maren trying to get my attention. Maren has also discovered her hands and she loves marveling at them! She’s also quite chatty. She is wanting to sit up a lot. While laying down, she does little baby crunches trying to get up. She is still sleeping super well and only wakes once or at most twice a night. There is not rocking or cajoling her to get to sleep. We pretty much just put her in her crib and she goes to sleep. She is taking 2-3 naps a day. Some naps are 2-3 hours and some are only an hour. She loves bath time and watching her big sister. She is a little lover, she loves to smile and coo. Maren has really started to play with toys and can hold on to them and get them into her mouth. She has her 4 month shots later this week. Happy New Year, Maren! We wish you health :-)

Maren having a grand time watching her hand (she seems to watch her right hand more than her left)
Christmas Eve was fun because we were all full of excitement AND it was my birthday! Maisy was sure to tell me happy birthday several times throughout the day, which was super sweet. Todd and the girls got me a necklace with with two M pendants and 2 birth stones, one for each girl. I also got a locket and a mani/pedi day. Thank you!!
Moving on to the main event, Christmas! We so enjoyed being home this year. It’s the first year Todd and I have been home for Christmas in almost 10 years! So happy we did. It was so nice to be in our own house and have a relaxing family Christmas without anywhere to go! We were very thankful and happy to join friends for dinner at Kevin and Marissa’s. Yum!
We all must have been super good this year, because Maisy got an easel she’s wanted for quite a while with a Terrance and a Tinker Bell doll too. Maren got a kick and play gym that will grow with her. Todd and I must have been so super extra good, because Santa left us an XBOX with Kinect! It is so much fun! My favorite game is Dance Central. Todd and I battle on the regular now. Sorry, no pictures of that!

Christmas after Santa arrived, but before presents were opened
In honor of Todd’s mustache interests, I got him this fancy pint glass.
The girls got too many toys for words. It’s fun, but also overwhelming. I got two HUGE plastic bins to put away older toys in the attic for a bit to make room.

After Christmas chaos before the big clean up

Maisy playing with her Kitchen from Grandpa

Maren playing with her new doggie from Nana and Papa
Can’t wait to do it all again next year!
Hoping you all had a wonderful Christmas and the year ahead is full of happiness, peace, love and health.
Much love, Todd, Becky, Maisy and Maren
Happy Birthday, Todd!!
We celebrated this morning before Todd took off for work. He got a nice new hat, a bottle of wine and some tea.

Todd trying on his new birthday hat from Maisy and me
After the morning festivities we headed over to my doctor’s appointment where Todd got to hear baby girl’s heartbeat for the first time. She is now exactly where she should be in terms of growth. My next appointment is July 27th.
Todd then went to work and we met for dinner at our favorite restaurant, The Wood Tavern, where we had a speedy early dinner. Maisy decided to completely not sleep today at nap time, but instead play for 2 and a half hours in her big girl room. So, she was not up for a lengthy dinner and we weren’t up for dealing with her through a lengthy dinner. Needless to day, she went to bed at 7 and missed the cupcake festivities.
Steven came over after dinner to help us sing and eat Todd’s special birthday egg-free, vanilla-free cupcakes. It was quite an undertaking to make them from scratch! Steven and Todd seemed to like them after we learned the trick of heating them first to moisten them up.
Here is a picture from today. I can’t believe there are only 10 short weeks left!
More later!
Much love, Todd, Becky, Maisy and baby girl
M aisy was lucky enough to have all of her family come to town for her big birthday event. We reserved a place in Cordornices Park in Berkeley where we bbq’d chicken, veggie burgers and sausages. Maisy got to play in the dirt and have CAKE for the very first time. The party was a success- no melt downs by anyone. The one downside was that it was really cold!

Trying to stay warm! So much for our “heat wave”.

Cake was a favorite after she figured out what to do with it
We opened presents the next morning with the grandparents, aunt, uncles and cousin. Maisy had a great time!

Maisy giving love to her new monkey “Uncle Fred”
After presents we all went out to Little Farm and the Merry-go-Round in Tilden. Maisy and Elijah were a bit spooked by the animals, but all the adults had a great time!

Getting ready to leave the farm
On June 5th, Maisy’s birthday, we took her to the California Academy of Science in San Francisco (the aquarium). She loved it! We are now members so we can go anytime- which will be fun for us all! Maisy wasn’t as excited as she could have been because we had her skip her morning nap to go- next time, we’ll take her after a good nap!
Maisy finally got her two front teeth on her actual birthday. She “finger walks” quite well and can stand on her own for about 15 seconds at a time, longer if she doesn’t realize she’s doing it. She goes for her one year check up in a week and a half to get her 12 month shots.
We are all doing well and heading out to Colorado next week for a good friend’s wedding where we will also get a chance to catch up with some family.
Todd is loving his new job and we are lucky that he is often able to work from home or at least go in after Maisy is down for her first nap, so Todd and Maisy get to spend some time together. She is just goo-goo over her daddy!
Those are all of our updates for now. Can’t wait to see what the next year has in store for us.
Much love and more later- Todd, Becky and Maisy